I saw Valerie's interview on Oprah and I came away with a very disdainful opinion of her.

She was very coy and seemed to enjoy every minute of sharing her salacious past. Rather than becoming a wise woman who has weathered storms and grown from them, she presented herself as a perpetual teenager who is giddy at having fooled those around her and is still determined to make her own rules for life.

Giggling throughout the interview and trying to pretend that she was surprised by what she had included in her book, Valerie destroyed any admiration that I could possibly have had for her.

Her "wisdom" basically can be summed up as: "You don't grow up until your 40's--and maybe not even then--so avoid marriage, have as many sexual relationships with either sex as you can, then live with the person you finally end up with."

If you buy her book, I hope you do not buy her philosophy of life.

Valerie you look great.

Did you use the amerishape plan?


I was once an exhausted working mom, unable to scale a single flight of stairs without panting. My knees, hips and feet constantly ached.

Linda, who lives in Atlanta GA., began burying her feelings in food when she was pregnant with her first child, Margaret, now 15.

She continued overeating through the subsequent pregnancy and birth of her son, in 1993, climbing up to a weight of 230 lbs. — a tremendous burden for her 5-foot-3 frame.

But when she was choked awake one February night by acid reflux — a digestive malady common to overweight people — Linda realized that her eating habits could well be to blame for her physical ailments. She thought of her colleague Penny . Penny, 13 years older than Linda, had doggedly dieted and exercised off 50 lbs. Linda thought: If she can do it, so can I.

Slimming Down (Without Starving)

The next morning, Linda went to Evans Elementary, where she worked as an aide in the computer lab, and devoured all the candy contraband she kept in her classroom closet. Finally free of temptation, she logged on to amerishape.com , an Internet service that helps dieters track their food and exercise, and troubleshoot problems with fellow dieters on message boards. She signed up on March 3, 2003, vowing, “I will never allow myself to feel like I’m suffering,” even though she allowed herself a mere 1,200 calories a day.

Each day, Linda budgeted in small portions of her favorite foods — peanut butter and full-fat cheese — so as not to feel deprived. And still the flab flew off at a rate of 4 lbs. — sometimes even 6 — per week.

But the new-and-improved Linda refused every cupcake and cookie offered to her at school, recounts her newly retired friend Penny, who worked as a librarian at the school.

Getting Honest, Getting Thin

After Linda hit a diet plateau, she took stock of every piece of food she had been putting into her mouth. She had to admit that the beloved peanut butter she allowed herself each day had grown significantly from a level tablespoon. “I was logging 100 calories of peanut butter, but I was eating 300,” she admits. “Once I got honest with myself, I started losing weight again.”

She also got moving to boost her calorie burn. “You know how you tell your kids to go upstairs and get the laundry? I quit doing that and went and got it myself,” she says. Margaret and Andrew were thrilled.

Finally, on March 28, Linda hit 123 lbs. She felt like a new woman. Adios, acid reflux; hello, sweet uninterrupted sleep. Goodbye, elasticized “fat-old-lady pants.” Hello, hipster capris. Even her feet, so long obscured by her belly, had shrunk — from a size 8 to a size 7.

It felt terrific, she says, to slip into a slinky, size-6 evening dress to attend the wedding of her stepson in September, and it felt even better when her husband, David, 52, a truck-repair foreman, announced, “You look very beautiful.”

And then there’s the payoff in pride and health. “I’m taking tae kwon do,” she says. “It just amazes me that I can keep up with my kids.” Weight loss is the ultimate act of self-love, continues Linda, because “you’re not doing it for anyone but yourself. You feel so good, mentally and physically, when you accomplish what you set out to do.”

3 Secrets to a Better Body:

• Know thyself. Linda knows she is hungriest early in the day. If she whips up a fattening dinner for her family, she makes a light dinner for herself and packs up her portion of the hearty family meal to eat for lunch the next day. That way, she consumes her calories when she is hungriest and will appreciate them most.

• Get a pedometer. Wearing this constant reminder helped Linda work up to logging 20,000 steps a day. (That’s 10 miles!)

• Build in pleasure. “I wanted to feel I could eat anything I want, and I do,” says Linda. Every few weeks, she forgoes her nutritious dinner to enjoy a piece of turtle torte or some other luxurious treat instead. source: amerishape